For organizersBars, restaurants and venues
A reason to come out on a Tuesday.
A singles night or a social night is a good reason to fill a slow evening, but most formats need a host, a clipboard and a lot of rearranged furniture. Flare runs from one iPhone. Put a code behind the bar, and the room does the rest.
A night of up to 50 costs $79.99, once, and up to 100 costs $149.99. Run it weekly with one tap.
Slow nights cost money anyway
The lights are on and the staff are in. An empty room is the most expensive kind of quiet.
Most event formats need a host
Speed dating takes a clipboard, a bell and someone who enjoys using both.
Trivia only works once a week
People want a reason to come that isn’t the same reason as last week.
A few people along the bar, not talking.
A code behind the bar, and everyone scans in.
Flare finds who’d like to meet.
Two glasses light up at opposite ends of the bar.
Questions you could use tonight.
Flare only knows what you ask. Here’s a starting template for this kind of event, and why each question is there. Copy it, then change whatever doesn’t sound like your crowd.
Tuesday Night Sparks
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Singles night
These answers are for this event. They don’t change your personal profile, and the host can’t read them.
What are you drinking tonight?
A cocktail
Beer
Wine
Nothing strong
Your ideal night: quiet (1) to lively (5)?
QuietLively
Which first-date activities would you enjoy?
Coffee and a walk
Live music
A museum
Cooking together
What are you drinking tonight?
Ask onlySingle choice
A fun warm-up. Ask only means it doesn’t affect who meets whom.
Your ideal night: quiet (1) to lively (5)?
Similar answersNormal importanceScale of 1 to 5
Good at separating a quiet drink from a late one.
Which first-date activities would you enjoy?
Shared answersNormal importanceMultiple choice
Gives every pair a first thing to talk about.
Pick the broad context to suit the night. Dating always respects each guest’s mutual preferences; Friends has no romantic rules at all.
How the night runs.
You start the event from your own iPhone and put the code where guests can see it. Everything after that happens on their phones.
- Before
Share the invitation on your socials a week ahead, so people arrive with the app ready.
- 7:00
The live code goes on the TV behind the bar. Staff need to know one sentence: “Scan the code, then light your flare.”
- 7:30
Introductions start. Phones can rest on the bar with a clear glass on top, if your guests like the idea.
- 8:15
Second introductions begin as rest timers run out.
- Close
End the event from your phone, and run it again next week in one tap.
What it looks like on the phones.
Real screens from the app, in the order they come up.




Is it right for your event?
It tends to suit
- Bars and restaurants with a regular slow night
- Venues with a TV or screen guests can see from the door
- Teams with no spare staff for hosting
It’s probably not for
- Very loud rooms, unless you add a short welcome: guests still need to know what’s happening
- Rooms where many guests are on Android
- Any room admitting under-18s: Flare is for adults, and checking ID at your door stays with you
Pay once, for this event.
A night of up to 50 costs $79.99, once, and up to 100 costs $149.99. Run it weekly with one tap.
No subscription and no per-match fee. Guests never pay.
What organizers ask.
Do my staff need training?
What’s the bit about glasses?
Will this bring in more customers?
Who’s responsible for safety?
Try it with ten people, for free.
A rehearsal is a real event. Round up some friends, run it once, and see how it feels before you put it in front of a room.